Spontaneously...." Trust & believing do not have any logical connotation or connection.They are & have to be self efficient, they can't be otherwise.E.g. If someone trust or believes in you "Because of something" then it is due to that "Something" which is playing the trick, & nothing else.Its like do you need logic to believe Sun rises in the east of earth ?
Either you trust someone or you don't, there is no mid way or reasoning for putting trust into someone or into yourself.
Trusting yourself is something very few people do on this earth, they always find reasons for trust.
You can fool others, atleast don't fool yourself. If you do, your life be just a "April fool".... Lolz 
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Tc & keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously...." If you have everything but if you don't have yourself, then it doesn't make any sense.Hence whatever you do, in whichever direction always have your true self then come whatever is possible you'll never ever lose anything.Because in life Reaching to the destination is inevitable but that's only one side of the coin, the other yes which direction you use & how you choose to reach.Having Yourself is the prime requisite for a Blissful life. Tc & keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously...." Truth is inevitable, truth is development. With truth a person will rise to betterment.If you know the truth, true way & you don't walk on it just for the sake of others, for the sake you don't want others to face injustice then you are doing injustice on a more larger scale.E.g. Society has gone bad not because of bad people but because good people have stopped taking a stand.E.g. If 2 people hold hands & one knows that she / he doesn't feel anything then its obvious that the other person also wouldn't feel anything knowing or unknowingly.
But both if still continue for N number of reasons than in the actual way you are reducing the possibility that the other should or may find someone else with whom he / she actually feel the holding of hands which is not happening with the other.
E.g. Its Like cooking food for someone you don't have any feelings for...
Neither you'll enjoy cooking nor the person will enjoy eating.
E.g. You plant 2 seeds, you water them both. Water 1 with all the feelings you have for it & water 2nd without any feelings or half heartedly. Both will grow biologically but there be a qualitative change in them.
The one watered with feelings will have more greener compared to the other.
If you come to know a truth regarding anything, walk on it. Yes it may be very difficult in the beginning because 95% people never come to know the Truth.
But I see it this way, that if you have come to know the truth this means existence wants you to walk this way otherwise existence wouldn't have chosen you for truth.
If you'll walk on Truth, it may definitely be very difficult but stick to it, at the end you'll do betterment for all.
Be courageous Buddy & trust yourself for the Truth, tc & keep smiling....." 
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Peace !
Spontaneously...." Awareness & being Neutral are prime requisite for a person live boundlessly.Awareness & being Neutral will take you out from any situation.Its like if you aware & Neutral even if you kill someone that'll be absolutely ok because when you are Neutral existence work through you.But if you are not aware or Neutral, even if you are a saint, whatever you'll do will bring pain & misery to others & yourself.
Stop trying to get things done on the external level. Remedies are never external, they are always internal.
Learn to be Aware & Neutral of yourself, rest will simply follow.
Trust me, I live this way & hence I never ever carry forward anything.
Tc & keep smiling.... "
Peace !
Spontaneously & Humorously....This is how 95 % of people are in this world.... Lolz
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😜😂Story....Early in the morning a Man was cattling a Goat, while his way from the farm to his house, he came across some people....1st Person - The person seeing the Goat said, wow what a wonderful Dog is it.
Owner - The man didn't reply thinking that the person must be mad.
2nd Person - The person seeing the Goat, said wow what a wonderful Dog isn't my friend & asked the man what he felt like of having such a wonderful Dog as his pet.
Owner - The Man replied, you idiot this isn't a Dog, its a Goat.
3rd Person - The person seeing the Dog said, wow what a wonderful Dog is it. I would like to buy this Dog from you.
Owner - The Man was shocked to know that why are people saying that this is a Dog, when I know that its a Goat.
But he replied him somehow.
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4th Person - The person seeing the Goat , asked Does this Dog bite ?
Owner - The Man was filled with anger & doubt that why the hell is this happening.
He replied with aggression & said that this is not a Dog asshole. This is a Goddam Goat. 
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But by the 4th person gone by he starting doubting his own intelligence.
5th person came by & before he could have his comment the owner asked, excuse me what pet do you see with me right now ?
The man replied its a beautiful Dog.... Lolz😜😂
Hearing this the owner went in a huge doubt & thought that bloody hell. I have been thinking all of my life that this is a Goat but it really seems that I am wrong, if 5 people say its a Dog then they can't be wrong, it would be my fault / mistake. He started feeling guilty also....
Thinking about such things & in huge pain & depression that his life was wasted he reached home with the pet.
By that time he was so engrossed in thinking that by mistake he said to his Mom, Mom I want to sell this Dog, in how much shall I do so.
His Mom came close & gave him a tight slap & said are you crazy, this is a Goat you idiot & not a Dog.... Lolz 😜😂
1 hour later on the tv he saw the news that 5 mad people had escaped from mental hospital who had become mad because they had lost their Dogs & due to which in all the animals they see, they only see their pet Dogs.... Lolz😂
With this I would say that we need trust & believe in ourselves irrespective of whatever the mass including your family says....
Because at the end its us who would be closest to the situation we are inn & so we would know Truth about it.
Trust your experience....
Trust your feeling....
Learn to boost yourself because at the end it starts with "You" Buddy.
Tc & Keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously....." Winning the mind or your thoughts is just not possible because thoughts = the Mind, they aren't different.Its a only a play of energies.Hence only focus on the thoughts or emotions which are more authentic.E.g. You are feeling confused regarding something, then reflect upon yourself & ask that if we remove you from the situation then will the confusion remain ?
Yes or no.
If yes its authentic, if no that means that confusion is just a temporary flow.
E.g. Whenever you are feeling peaceful, as yourself that if we romeve you from the situation then will That peace remain ?
Yes or no.
I assure you whenever you'll do this with yourself, your heart will surely guide you for the authentic & temporary flows.
Always follow your heart because it started beating first than your mind started thinking....
The mind became alive due to the heart, without the heart there would not have been any mind.
Yes obviously following the mind will always be very easy & 95% people follow the mind only & reach nowhere.
Following the heart in the beginning may look like hell but at the end, life will be yours. Trust me on that, That's the reason why nature has chosen the heart to beat first for life & not the brain / Mind.
Be Authentic, not temporary.....
Tc & keep smiling...."
Peace !
