Spontaneously...." Truth is inevitable, truth is development. With truth a person will rise to betterment.If you know the truth, true way & you don't walk on it just for the sake of others, for the sake you don't want others to face injustice then you are doing injustice on a more larger scale.E.g. Society has gone bad not because of bad people but because good people have stopped taking a stand.E.g. If 2 people hold hands & one knows that she / he doesn't feel anything then its obvious that the other person also wouldn't feel anything knowing or unknowingly.
But both if still continue for N number of reasons than in the actual way you are reducing the possibility that the other should or may find someone else with whom he / she actually feel the holding of hands which is not happening with the other.
E.g. Its Like cooking food for someone you don't have any feelings for...
Neither you'll enjoy cooking nor the person will enjoy eating.
E.g. You plant 2 seeds, you water them both. Water 1 with all the feelings you have for it & water 2nd without any feelings or half heartedly. Both will grow biologically but there be a qualitative change in them.
The one watered with feelings will have more greener compared to the other.
If you come to know a truth regarding anything, walk on it. Yes it may be very difficult in the beginning because 95% people never come to know the Truth.
But I see it this way, that if you have come to know the truth this means existence wants you to walk this way otherwise existence wouldn't have chosen you for truth.
If you'll walk on Truth, it may definitely be very difficult but stick to it, at the end you'll do betterment for all.
Be courageous Buddy & trust yourself for the Truth, tc & keep smiling....." 
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Peace !
Spontaneously...." Awareness & being Neutral are prime requisite for a person live boundlessly.Awareness & being Neutral will take you out from any situation.Its like if you aware & Neutral even if you kill someone that'll be absolutely ok because when you are Neutral existence work through you.But if you are not aware or Neutral, even if you are a saint, whatever you'll do will bring pain & misery to others & yourself.
Stop trying to get things done on the external level. Remedies are never external, they are always internal.
Learn to be Aware & Neutral of yourself, rest will simply follow.
Trust me, I live this way & hence I never ever carry forward anything.
Tc & keep smiling.... "
Peace !
Spontaneously & Humorously....This is how 95 % of people are in this world.... Lolz
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😂Story....Early in the morning a Man was cattling a Goat, while his way from the farm to his house, he came across some people....1st Person - The person seeing the Goat said, wow what a wonderful Dog is it.
Owner - The man didn't reply thinking that the person must be mad.
2nd Person - The person seeing the Goat, said wow what a wonderful Dog isn't my friend & asked the man what he felt like of having such a wonderful Dog as his pet.
Owner - The Man replied, you idiot this isn't a Dog, its a Goat.
3rd Person - The person seeing the Dog said, wow what a wonderful Dog is it. I would like to buy this Dog from you.
Owner - The Man was shocked to know that why are people saying that this is a Dog, when I know that its a Goat.
But he replied him somehow.
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4th Person - The person seeing the Goat , asked Does this Dog bite ?
Owner - The Man was filled with anger & doubt that why the hell is this happening.
He replied with aggression & said that this is not a Dog asshole. This is a Goddam Goat. 
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But by the 4th person gone by he starting doubting his own intelligence.
5th person came by & before he could have his comment the owner asked, excuse me what pet do you see with me right now ?
The man replied its a beautiful Dog.... Lolz😜😂
Hearing this the owner went in a huge doubt & thought that bloody hell. I have been thinking all of my life that this is a Goat but it really seems that I am wrong, if 5 people say its a Dog then they can't be wrong, it would be my fault / mistake. He started feeling guilty also....
Thinking about such things & in huge pain & depression that his life was wasted he reached home with the pet.
By that time he was so engrossed in thinking that by mistake he said to his Mom, Mom I want to sell this Dog, in how much shall I do so.
His Mom came close & gave him a tight slap & said are you crazy, this is a Goat you idiot & not a Dog.... Lolz 😜😂
1 hour later on the tv he saw the news that 5 mad people had escaped from mental hospital who had become mad because they had lost their Dogs & due to which in all the animals they see, they only see their pet Dogs.... Lolz😂
With this I would say that we need trust & believe in ourselves irrespective of whatever the mass including your family says....
Because at the end its us who would be closest to the situation we are inn & so we would know Truth about it.
Trust your experience....
Trust your feeling....
Learn to boost yourself because at the end it starts with "You" Buddy.
Tc & Keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously....." Winning the mind or your thoughts is just not possible because thoughts = the Mind, they aren't different.Its a only a play of energies.Hence only focus on the thoughts or emotions which are more authentic.E.g. You are feeling confused regarding something, then reflect upon yourself & ask that if we remove you from the situation then will the confusion remain ?
Yes or no.
If yes its authentic, if no that means that confusion is just a temporary flow.
E.g. Whenever you are feeling peaceful, as yourself that if we romeve you from the situation then will That peace remain ?
Yes or no.
I assure you whenever you'll do this with yourself, your heart will surely guide you for the authentic & temporary flows.
Always follow your heart because it started beating first than your mind started thinking....
The mind became alive due to the heart, without the heart there would not have been any mind.
Yes obviously following the mind will always be very easy & 95% people follow the mind only & reach nowhere.
Following the heart in the beginning may look like hell but at the end, life will be yours. Trust me on that, That's the reason why nature has chosen the heart to beat first for life & not the brain / Mind.
Be Authentic, not temporary.....
Tc & keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously & Humorously...." People who don't have "Understanding"....Have Ego, Rigidity, Narrow mindedness, Lust, Lust for Power & Money so many other things.The Crux that People who don't have "Understanding" = Samjan can't be helped for happiness.... Lolz 😂Because they are unhappy because of their own lack of understanding.
If you really want to know, feel & experience what I am sharing....
Then just for 5 minutes think of people around whom somehow or the other way anything & everything just flows so smooth, you feel so easy & simple, you feel so relaxed & then think of those people around which you feel "K badhu j che Pan kaik Majja nathi avti, Badhu j che Pan Shanti nathi, easy feel nathi thatu".
That difference is due to "Understanding". A person with "Understanding" is very easy going, simple & straight forward. Rest I think you know.... Lolz 😜
Don't care for those who don't have "Understanding", with or without you they are pathetic in either ways.
Work for being with people who actually makes you feel easy & relaxed.
Reflect on yourself not on the mirror. Tc & keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously & Humorously...." 95% of people do not understand what I mean or when I say that "All your joys & pains are a mind set".I really feel that its just impossible to feel pain or joyful on this earth.Now how & why I say this....Joy & pain are in equivalent to each other in a person, it is to create a balance, this process is existential.
Joys & pains are 2 sides of the same coin.
Now whenever you feel joy or pain look consciously into it see what it is & how it is real sense.
95% people say, think & believe that joy & pain happens to us, which I believe is wrong.
Joy & pain occur is for sure but it just can't happen to you, "You" = your real "You" = Consciousness.
Get this straight into your head that in order to feel joy & pain, duality is required.
E.g. A throne will never know it pierces. Throne will Pierce someone else, throne can't Pierce itself.
"You" will experience the beginning & end of all joys & pains just you'll know the beginning & end of a throne piercing you.
That means you & the throne are 2 things, that means you & your joys & pains are 2 things.
Now if you are 2 things there is a possibility of detachment, there is possibility of getting control, there is a possibility of being untouched.
The very point is that you just don't think or see this way.
If you are trying to get away from pain then you'll die trying but you'll never successed because you are already away from it, but you haven't realized that yet.
Its just a matter of realization & you are out of it.
Reflect on yourself, not on the mirror. Tc & keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously...." In almost all of my Blogs I at the end write " look into yourself " or " check yourself " or " Reflect on yourself "....I think alot of people may have a question of what I am intending to say by writing that....I'll give an example & you'll have to answer to yourself & not me....E.g. Wherever you are right now in the very next moment if the God comes to you & ask you to ask for whatever you want / need, then what or how will you react ?Now at this moment whatever you'll react or ask for will show what you are...If you really want to know what a person is, then give them absolute freedom. In freedom they'll show their true colours / faces....I assume this should explain the Crux.Tc & keep smiling...."Peace !
Spontaneously...." Peace, Freedom, Trust, Joy, Love, compassion, all are self driven.Actually all the major stuff in life which are a prime requisite for a person to "Live a life" are all always internal.They have to take birth "Within", they cannot be seeked or projected on "someone else" = "other".E.g. People often project / seek "Love" in someone else & then by time that "Love" fades away.
This happens because that "Love" was never ever there in the first place, it had never taken birth, it was simply a projection = a mindset of love on someone else, it was only a dream.
People actually rise in love because for the first time "Love" is born in you. This love always rises & remains constant over time.
Time has no impact on "Love".
Rather time has no impact on any of the prime requisites of life.
Make it authentic, not a projection.
Things born in you will remain, rest all will fade away.
Its like only those things are authentic which are beyond time.
Anything which is effected by time will simply come & go & is not eternal.
Go in the direction of eternity & not in time.
Reflect on yourself, not in the mirror.
Tc & keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously...." Majority of People think that "logic" & "understanding" are one or similar or connected to each other.But there is a big big difference between them....Understanding = How you feel, see, connect to yourself & people around & to things.Logic = Calculation which makes sense.
E.g. of Logic = Its Logical to wash hands before you eat & if your hands don't get cleaned at once you wash it twice or thrice. Washing hands 100 times will be considered madness but still it'll makes sence to wash if the hands aren't clean.
E.g. of Understanding = You calculate about 10, 000 things, 100 things or 10 things at the end of the day one needs Peace to relax & one should be given that space / freedom to have his / her own time with oneself.
Obvious E.g. = You seldom come across brilliant intellectual people who are very talented, skilled & sharp but you don't find them having "Understanding". Talent & skill set is one thing & having Understanding is another.
Gujarati ma " Budhi hovi ane samjan hovi e bey bov j alag vat che...."
Reflect on yourself Buddy, not on the Mirror.
Tc & Keep Smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously & Humorously...." Understanding is never subjective, its always existential.Irrespective of alot of so called talent, education, success etcIt is said & believed that everyone problems in their life & they are meant to make one strong & mature."Understanding" is such a wonderful stuff that the one who has it may move out from having problems with problems in life.
One cannot have a conflict with a person with "Understanding".
"Understanding" means to see it clearly & neutrally of how things are.
Generally speaking I feel that the problems you feel you have according to you, the less Understanding you have about yourself.
Reflect on yourself Buddy, not on the mirror.
Tc & Keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously....." Freedom, Love, Trust & Peace, these are couple of things everyone would want at the end of a day but unfortunately nobody works on it.These things cannot be found in others before making them birth in your ownself.These are intrinsic state of being, have nothing to do with external factors.A person has almost everything today on the external front but they miss the prime requisite of "Living a life".Life seems to be empty without these things.Its upto you on which road you want to go. On the road which makes hypocritical sense to the mass or on the road which makes complete common sense to you.Reflect on yourself Buddy, not on the Mirror.Tc & Keep smiling...."Peace !
Spontaneously & Humorously...." Understanding is never subjective, its always existential.Irrespective of alot of so called talent, education, success etcIt is said & believed that everyone problems in their life & they are meant to make one strong & mature."Understanding" is such a wonderful stuff that the one who has it may move out from having problems with problems in life.One cannot have a conflict with a person with "Understanding"."Understanding" means to see it clearly & neutrally of how things are.Generally speaking I feel that the problems you feel you have according to you, the less Understanding you have about yourself.Reflect on yourself Buddy, not on the mirror.Tc & Keep smiling...."Peace !
Spontaneously...." We frame & think ourselves as modernized, educated & developed people / society.I would want to ask to the mass What defines modernization & development ?Have your ever thought that we still are in such a cultural mindset that we still follow the paths & experiences of our so called religious books which were written 5 thousand years back.Our Gods still wearing the same outfits, it seems even God is stagnant. Lolz !
We still feel that all the existential possibilities have already been lived by our ancient people, nothing else is possible anymore.
We still frame people by culture & religion.
We still frame people by gender.
We still only talk of freedom but practice none.
We still guide our children that parents are & will always be right.
Well I would want ask that, if a child reaches only to the level of his mother or father, how will the quality of life go ahead ?
The parent & the child both are stuck at the same place, there will be no development of genetics.
We still frame that mediation & energy work is work of "Sadhu bava". Lolz !
We still frame that a Man is an asset & a woman is a liability.
Lolz !
We still pray for a male child. Lolz
We still have marriage as a milestone & divorce as a curse.
We still comes across murders for bank balance, fights over lands, fight over being superior etc.
Women still face molestation, gender bias, rejection, no respect.
People are still afraid to say the truth regarding anything.
We still think of success in terms of Money.
We still believe in repression even though we haven't reached anywhere do so.... Lolz !
Youngster are still taught rituals which are 10 thousand years old.
We still don't trust & allow the intelligence of women to flow, we feel that they are low on intellect bcoz its still a man driven culture / society. Lol !
Well truly I really don't see any education or modernization, I just see a herd of humanity.
Look into yourself, tc & keep smiling".
Peace !
Spontaneously...." Awareness is the key to yourself & to "Be" owner of yourself.If you aren't conscious, whatever you'll feel, think or do will never ever reach to its peaks.Peaks can't be reached by quantity or quality of feeling, thinking or doing.Peaks can be reached by consciousness only.
E.g. If you aren't conscious then even a ride in Lamborghini will not make you rise but if you are conscious then a simple bicycle ride is also enough to make you rise & it'll remain for a longer period of time, because consciousness is constant by nature. The same thing goes for your feelings & thinking, how you see life.
Whatever you feel, think or do, learn to be more aware, learn to be more neutral. Consciousness will definitely make you rise.
The best part is that if you don't do it, existence will make you do it in the best & worst way possible.... Lolz ! 😂
Look into yourself & around, tc & keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously...." People learn almost everything but they fail to learn to be neutral.People fail to be in awareness.Duality means two.....Alot of people face confusion & dualities into their ownself.
It happens so bcoz a birth of a child happen through dualities = Women & Man.
There are many instances in everyone's life that on 1 time they feel "S" about "K" & the other time they feel "Y" about "J".
If you are Fighting with dualities, you'll never ever win.
Learn to be neutral, "Be aware". Awareness is neutral by nature. When a person is neutral that's the perfect time when he / she is on no side & that's when a perfect decision, response, choice, feeling, emotions flow or can be executed.
A perfect decision comes when a person is neutral.
Dude trust me, If you trust "Being Neutral", you'll never ever lose bcoz existence itself will function by you.
If you want to learn, learn to be aware & neutral. Rest all the learning are only branches.
Tc & keep smiling...."
Peace !
Spontaneously...." Lately I come across alot of Women empowerment short films, Videos, Movies etc.It is required big time as general people understand this way only & with this people are taken towards awareness....But I would like convey to all Women & Men that, the very basic reason of Women always been predominated, are not allowed to grow, conditioned as a week gender is, that somewhere down the line Men always knew that Women have been, are & will be powerful because they have the potential to give birth, to create.
The person who has the potential to create is very powerful from its basic nature itself only then it'll be able to create....
Conditioning has gone down to such depths in female psychology that Women have almost forgotten their true potential....
Now in such a situation I often say that reflect on yourself, know yourself....
But what does it mean or how does it start or how does knowing our ownself start?
Well there is only one sentence I for that....
" Knowing your ownself starts with a questions & end When there are no more questions".
Women & Men, stop the conditioning. Drop the Mindset....
Be existential, be true to yourself.
Tc & keep smiling...."
Peace !
